Mental Self Help
Monday, April 16th, 2007Mental Self Help
Is it actually possible to get mental self-help by reading a book? Most qualified psychotherapists would say no. This is because the same mind that is sick cannot manage its own cure. That is like asking a bartender to take good care of an alcoholic or a coyote to take good care of a bunny. Still most people can’t afford a psychiatrist and have to find some way to fix themselves up if they are suffering from some kind of mental anguish.
Despite the illogical nature of the mental self help industry, books and self help courses in this subject area abound (especially on the internet.) Some of the more common mental problems that people seek help for include: adult attention deficit disorder, adult Asperger’s syndrome, depression, dyslexia, manic depression, codependency, addiction, paranoia, insomnia and memory loss. All of these are conditions where mind can’t cure mind.
Before you embark on any kind of course of mental self-help you are well advised to first get yourself checked out by a physician. This is because many of the disorders that are described above are actually symptomatic of more serious afflictions. For instance mood swings could be attributed to brain cancer. Lung cancer can cause insomnia. One of the first symptoms of diseases of all kinds is sleeplessness and depression.
Often what people mistake for ADD, memory loss or manic depression is actually brain damage caused by recreational drug use and drinking. Before you spend a lot of money on self-help courses make sure that your mental problems are not actually caused by physical complications due to being addicted to something.
Yet another problem that many defects of character are actually interpreted as mental problems. For instance, not having a conscience is not a mental problem (as in not knowing right from wrong), it is a problem of character. Being in denial about an addiction is also a character flaw and not a mental problem. Problems like hypochondria, dyslexia and depression fall more into the category of being mental problems.
Some types have mental problems actually have a real physical component. For instance a sociopath may not be able to change because he was born with fetal alcohol syndrome, which causes brain damage. Drug abuse, being deprived of oxygen, high fevers and blows to the head can also cause brain damage. If you suspect you have brain damage then mental self-help books are not likely to help you that much.
A self-prescribed course of mental self-help usually only has a chance of working if you are willing to drop bad habits and attitudes, take a reality check and change your life style. The problem is that achieving mental self-help often requires the kind of clear perspective and discipline that most sick brains don’t have. This is where joining a support group might come in handy as studies have shown that people have a greater success rate when it comes to beating their demons if they have the support of people with similar problems.
Tags: mental self help, adult attention deficit disorder, Drug abuse, Asperger’s syndrome, fetal alcohol syndrome
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